Triathlon #3 - June 3, 2017 in Greenville

Monday, June 19, 2017

My friend Kara and I were supposed to do a triathlon together last summer, but after her Guillain Barre diagnosis and subsequent temporary paralyzation, plans obviously changed. As she regained her strength, we knew it was a must for this year.  Because that's Kara...why just learn to walk again when you can kill it with a swim, bike, and run?!  

We began training in our separate cities, comparing notes, sore muscle complaints (that bike seat!), and training plans. Four months of hard work later, we felt ready.  Mostly.

We headed up to Greenville the Friday before and met her husband and family at a local hotel.  Our husbands stayed with the kids at the pool while we went to go pick up our race packets.  As we were walking out of the YMCA, we saw a roped-off section leading into the woods.  WAIT just a minute there, mister....was this a TRAIL run?!  Oh lawdy.  Trail runs do NOT mix well with my once-broken ankle and they sure as heck aren't ideal for Kara.  We tracked down a race volunteer and asked him about it.  He replied that "only the first 1/2 mile is trail...and it's not 'technical'" (I discovered later that that meant a lot of uneven terrain, roots, rocks, etc.)  Welp, it was too late to turn back now.  

We nervously headed back to the hotel and hung out by the pool for a bit.  We discussed dinner options and settled on an Italian place that had gluten-free options and good reviews. After the kids dried off and changed clothes, we headed out.  About ten minutes into the drive I thought it would be a good idea to attempt to do call-ahead seating and discovered there would be about an hour wait.  Obviously that would not work well with five hungry kids.  We rerouted to a different spot and got seated within ten minutes.  It was a great dinner full of lots of catching up with surprisingly few interruptions since the kids were at a booth behind us.  (Our apologies to the family on the other side of them.)  We surprised Kara's oldest daughter and Audrey with an ice cream birthday treat for their June birthdays. There was enough for all five kids to eat a gracious plenty and everyone left with full, happy bellies. 

By the time we let the oldest girls exchange birthday gifts and got everyone settled down in their own rooms, it was after 9 o'clock.  Since they'd had a full afternoon of swimming, they fell asleep pretty quickly.  David and I were a different story.  My race jitters were running rampant.  I finally settled down, but then woke up around 2am.  I read for awhile and eventually fell back asleep around 3:30ish.  The alarm went off at 5am and I got up and quietly got ready in the dark.  We woke the kids up about 5:30am and they were surprisingly pleasant.  After grabbing some fruit and yogurt at the continental breakfast, we loaded up the cars and went to the race site.  

Kara and I got "body-marked"  (still a favorite part - it just feels so hardcore!) and put our chip timer anklets on and then set up our transition area spots.  I was still incredibly nervous, mostly about having such an attentive audience for the swim portion.  David and the kids had never seen me do the swim before...they'd just shown up along the bike route for my previous races.  The athletes began lining up poolside and we listened to a few last minute instructions from the race director. We got in semi-order of fastest to slowest  (since it's a pool swim, they let athletes jump in one at a time every 5 seconds or so according to their swim time.)  Kara was a good bit ahead of me so I was able to see her swim and then run over to give her a high-five as she exited the pool.  

All too quickly, it was my turn to jump in.  I started off passing a lady right away, which I think was my first mistake.  I was going way too fast.  As I came to the end of the first lane (which was 50 yards instead of the 25 I'm used to training in), I came up for air and gulped in a huge amount of water.  As in, lungs FULL of water.  

Now. If you're new to swimming or are just unsure how lungs work, you may not know that lungs full of water is no bueno.  

Hindsight sure is 20/20 isn't it?  Because I know now that what I should have done was stop right there, grab the wall, and wait as long as it took until I regained normal breathing. But I didn't do that. I pushed on.  And quickly realized I was in trouble.  I could not catch my breath and I was now in the middle of the deep end.  I kept going, trying to regulate my breathing and calm myself down.  I swam with my head above the water, trying to catch my breath.  My mind was racing.  I grabbed the rope and started treading for a moment.  I really thought I was going to have to get saved by a lifeguard or get out and quit.  It was HORRIBLE.  I could not get my brain or my lungs to chill out.  And my kids were watching. 

Finally,  I remembered what my swim coach once told me about flipping over and doing backstroke if I had to.  I did that for a minute and finally felt ready to try freestyle stroke with my head down again.  By this point, though, my mental game was toast.  I felt completely defeated, humiliated, and incapable.  Try swimming and breathing normally when those thoughts are racing through your mind.  On the last lane, I caught glimpses of Luke standing poolside holding up his little sign for me.  "You will not quit or fail in front of these kids," I told myself.  If you ever doubt what a difference a cheering section can do, don't.  I finished the lap, wearily climbed out, gave David a "that-nearly-killed-me" glance, and then ran to the transition area to get ready to bike.

It took me a few miles on the bike to shake off what had happened.  I finally just had to tell myself that it was over and it was time to focus on the next task at hand.  I did well on the bike, breaking my top speed record by nearly 10 mph when I hit close to 35 going down a hill.  Honestly, that was probably too fast and a dangerous call, but I was determined to make up as much time as I could.

I finished the 15 mile bike and came into the transition area in a much better mood than I'd left it.  I had a hard time racking the bike because the people on either side of me had left no room (serious triathlon faux pas).  I finally got it, grabbed my running belt and race bib, and ran out towards the trail.  It was tough and a lot more "technical" than they had let on (at one point I had to jump a small creek...it was very small, but if you have to jump anything, I'd say that's at least a little rough!)  It was shaded, but pretty hilly.  I reached the usual point of a race where one side of me is begging the other to let me walk and the other side is refusing.  Yes, it's as schizophrenic as it sounds.  I thought I caught a glimpse of Kara up ahead of me, which pushed me through another couple of minutes.  It turned out not to be her, but the mirage helped tremendously.  

When I came out of the woods and up to the road, our cheering section was there waiting with their signs and cow bells.  I gave them a wave and turned out onto the road to pound out the 2.5 miles that I had left.  In the distance I saw Kara coming towards me (the real one this time) and nearly burst with pride.  It was so amazing to see her doing this race after all that she'd been through.  I had seen her paralyzed in ICU then clawing her way back in rehab and now here she was just a little over a year later doing a triathlon.  Awesome.  Tears welled up as we passed each other and high-fived.  "You can do this!" she shouted  "If you can do that bike course, you've got this run!"  I returned a "You're almost there!  You're doing great!" and kept plugging away.  It wasn't a bad run, but it definitely had some hills.  I didn't have my music for either the bike or the run, which also makes a huge difference. Being stuck with your own thoughts is a lot more mentally challenging than if you have a distracting podcast or a good beat to listen to.  

I reached the home stretch and saw Kara with our crew waiting.  I crossed the finish line, hearing them cheer and the announcer say my name.  Thank you, LORD, I'd made it.  We circled up and compared notes about the course and our experiences.  I told them about the horrible swim and they listened sympathetically.  We looked at our results (I was last out of the 9 in our age group, but expected that...)  Later Kara's husband showed me these meme and I died laughing:




A perfect depiction of my experience during that swim.  But I'd made it.  I hadn't quit and I lived to tell about it.  We went back to the hotel for showers and then out for a celebratory brunch at Cracker Barrel.  The kids entertained each other while the adults talked.  We wrapped up and headed out to the "front porch" to say our goodbyes.  I squeezed Kara and told her how incredibly proud I was of her before we peeled away and loaded up our van. The kids were as sad to say goodbye as we were, but we promised to get together again soon. 

David, the kids, and I headed to Greenville to spend the afternoon tooling around the city. We went to Falls Park on the Reedy, which was gorgeous.  We walked trails around there and then a little through the city before going back to the van and driving to a little toy shop the Taylors had recommended.  The kids each got $5 to spend on a souvenir and then we went to a Mast General Store, which Kara introduced me to in Asheville.  We browsed, grabbed an ornament for our travel tree, and then crossed the street for ice cream.  It was a sweet ending to a great weekend.  We walked back to our van, buckled up, and got on 85 towards home.  All of us turned in extra early that night, but not without first thanking God for our sweet friends and a good race.  He'd gotten me through, no doubt, and I was incredibly grateful!

Here are a few pictures from our weekend:


The kids table at dinner on Friday night

I've never been so happy to touch the wall!

Heading out for the bike ride and trying to clear my head from that swim

Nearing the finish line...as if you couldn't tell from the expression of joy on my face. 
Love my cheering section!

Finished!

Falls Park on the Reedy

Outside an art studio leaving their mark on Greenville

In front of a cool local toy shop

Ending a great weekend on a sweet note with an ice cream treat

Protein Smoothies and Laptops: A Cautionary Tale

Wednesday, June 7, 2017

(Note:  Names may have been omitted to protect the not-so-innocent.)

I had a "friend" who recently spilled a protein shake all over her less-than-a-year old MacBook Pro laptop. Even though she hopped right up and began attempting to drain the liquid off of the machine, the damage was done.  And boy, was there damage:

Please note how the inexpensive fan and Wifi section are completely untouched.

After she let it dry for a day (possibly making it worse), she attempted to power it back up. But alas, it would not start...no matter how many times she pressed that little button.  

Thus began a nearly two week saga of driving all over town, making appointments, and shelling out serious cash to fix this split-second mistake.  She found an expert to extract the data for a "reasonable" rate.  Praise the Lord they were able to because this friend had not backed up in quite some time.  And it just so happened that her son graduated Pre-K, she hosted a once-in-a-lifetime anniversary party, and their family had taken a special spring break trip to Chattanooga just like our family!  Coincidence, huh?!  So of course I could imagine how she felt when she realized that all of those home videos and photos were at risk of being lost forever!  In fact, since she couldn't remember exactly when she had last backed up, it's possible that her son's 5th birthday, Christmas of last year, and much more could have been lost.  

But God had mercy on her pitiful soul and the data was recovered.  She had to take it back to the Apple store for the third time (first two were for quotes) to get repaired and then pick it back up from them and return it to the IT store for them to reload her data.  Eight trips to various places and, again, SO MUCH MONEY later, she picked up her basically brand new computer.  It was a gigantic pain, but it was also a valuable learning opportunity.  

Lessons learned:  

1.  Back up your data.  Frequently.  

2.  No smoothies around the computer.  Water, coffee...basically anything else would've been better than a thick, sticky smoothie.  And really, just to be safe, you should stop drinking healthy crap like protein smoothies in the first place.  

3.  When (not if) your spouse or kids make stupid mistakes like this in the future, show them serious mercy.  Not one time did this friend's husband make her feel badly for her mistake. (Trust me, she was upset enough for the both of them.)

Here's hoping you can learn from her experience.  I know I sure did!  And let's hope she starts blogging more again soon now that she has her computer back.  :)  

Lately... Late April/Early May 2017 Recap

Monday, May 15, 2017

So how ya doin'?  ...What's that you say?  How dare I ask because it's May and that should be self-explanatory?!  Preach, sister.  Things have been pretty nonstop around here since the end of spring break in April.  

Where to begin...How about with the house? Let's see, we had an unplanned porch repair to tear out and replace rotten wood on the ceiling from an active leak that also had to fixed.  David and I did serious yard work for three Saturdays in a row with me working on it some weekdays as well.  In addition to the usual upkeep, we planted flowers, laid mulch and pine straw, created a new framed-in mulched area under our deck addition, and added some decor and outdoor games to the patio area.  I repainted the mailbox, the window baskets, and the wall candle holder we have on the deck and scrubbed the deck, porch, and all the patio furniture until it was shiny...or at least not yellow from pollen anymore.  Inside we finally finished the family room makeover that I started in January (earlier if you count it starting with my mantle makeover from last year!)  We also had our duct work and windows cleaned.  

On the school scene, we had Luke's class Easter party, egg hunt, field day, parent-teacher conference, and volunteer appreciation lunch.  Shew.  There hasn't been as much activity with Audrey's school, but I did have PTA nominating committee duties and two board meetings plus a volunteer appreciation lunch.  With both schools I've also been busy planning, communicating, and executing end of year teacher gifts and activities.  Thankfully Luke doesn't have a big end of year party and AJ's is going to be incredibly easy on me.  

On the social scene, we had a small group picnic, a nice date with a hike and dinner at a new-to-us restaurant, multiple Easter egg hunts, my nephew's birthday lunch, and a few play dates/kids' birthday parties.  We also threw a surprise anniversary party at our house for my dad and stepmom with my brothers and their families as well as my stepmom's kids and grandkids.  David grilled delicious hamburgers and the weather was perfect.  It went really well and they enjoyed it.  

What else?  David was out of town for a couple of days, which always makes things tougher. We had multiple doctor's appointments for Luke and I.  Thankfully they were all well visits this time...finally!  Audrey has continued gymnastics and celebrated her summer birthday at school.  Luke started swim lessons at a nearby indoor pool and we got him registered for kindergarten.  I hate the phrase "I can't even", but I can't even go there right now.  There are so many emotions surrounding that situation that it will have to be it's own future post...if I can see through the tears to type it.  For now I will continue to live in denial thank you very much.  

So yeah.  It's been a crazy month since my last post.  I'm sorry for the fly-by update, but I wanted to get it all out quickly so I could be caught up and MAYBE get back into smaller, more frequent posts.  That went so well for those solid couple of weeks.  But if I were you, I don't think I'd count on hearing much more out of me for the next 8 days until school is out.  Home stretch, baby!  We can do this!

Spring Break Trip to Chattanooga 2017

Monday, April 10, 2017

This past week we took a short trip up to Chattanooga for a few days during the kids' spring break.  We’d been looking forward to it for weeks and watched excitedly as the kids’ paper countdown chain got smaller and smaller.  Finally our day of departure arrived.  We loaded up the van, double-checked the A/C settings, door locks, and my scattered post-it notes full of reminders, and hit the road. 

Because it had only been two weeks since our trip to Savannah, the two hour and twenty minute drive seemed to fly by.  Heck, in metro Atlanta, two hours can be spent getting from one side of town to the other if traffic is particularly bad.  The kids did great entertaining themselves with “Eye Spy” and conversation.  When that grew old, we rocked out to the Troll soundtrack, Lionel Richie station on Pandora, and Alabama (Tennessee River seemed very appropriate!)

We had originally planned to stop at Rock City on the way in and eat a picnic lunch and explore there, but the rainy and chilly weather made us rethink that.  Our next idea was to call Ruby Falls and see what their wait time was to decide whether it would be worth it (we’d heard if you don’t get there first thing, it can make for a long line.)  The lady on the phone told me it was 45 minutes, which doesn’t sound awful, except that in my experience you need to add at least 20 minutes to whatever time an employee quotes you.  We opted to save that for the next day and headed into town for a picnic by the river and a visit to the famed aquarium.  It was so nasty outside that we ate our picnic in the van, but everyone kept good spirits about it. 

We weren’t crazy about shelling out unplanned money for aquarium tickets, but it sounded better than the children’s museum or the local shopping mall.  We started at the lemur exhibit (I know…strange thing to have at an aquarium!)  and the stingray touch pool.  Both kids hesitated, but eventually gave in and reached in for a petting as they swam by.  After that, we made our way to the butterfly house.  As we were about to walk out and Audrey was complaining that none had landed on her, one attached to her shoe and wouldn’t let go!  We finally got it off and then went through the other exhibits in that building, which included penguins, jellyfish, and a big tank full of all kinds of creatures.  Luke’s favorite were the sharks, of course.  Actually, that's not true.  I think what they both enjoyed the most were the revolving doors that lead in and out of a few exhibits.  Well worth the steep price of admission, I suppose.

We finished up at the building and let the kids run around the cool structures and bridges in the outdoor courtyard before entering the next building.  This one was full of exhibits of otters, seahorses, huge river fish, and small alligators.  After that one we were all getting tired, but decided we had to at least check out the final building, which was a special “Monster Fish” exhibit.  It was interesting, but later we all agreed it was our least favorite of the three.  We walked back to the van in the misty rain and drove to our hotel.  The kids were in awe of the grand two-story lobby of The Read House Hotel that would be our home for the next couple of days.  We found our room and made a quick call to a family member who had just texted some awesome news.  (More on that in a future post.)  We let the kids have a little device time while David watched the Masters and I got us settled in. 

When we’d sufficiently rested, we set out to explore the hotel.  It was originally built in the mid-1800s, served as a hospital during the Civil War, and then burned down in 1867.  It was rebuilt in 1872 but then flooded in 1875.  They kept it open for awhile after, but eventually decided to demolish and rebuild in 1926.  It really is a gorgeous place, with intricate detailing on the moulding and beautiful Waterford Crystal chandeliers everywhere.  We had a cool time walking around and making up stories about the grand balls and receptions that used to take place there.

After we were sure we’d covered every nook and cranny of the hotel, we drove over to the Bluff View Art district.  It was still rainy but we tried to make the most of it anyway and explored the quaint little area surrounded by gorgeous historic houses and gardens.  After a particularly gusty gail turned our umbrella inside out and left our faces soaking wet, we opted to go ahead and have an early dinner at Tony’s Italian Restaurant.  Kara and I had eaten there when we’d come up to Chattanooga a few years ago for one of our girls’ trips.  It was as tasty as I remember.  We talked about our day and I came up with the “Three L” game.  Everyone shared something they “L”oved, something they “L”earned, and something they could’ve “L”ived without.  As we talked and laughed through the days’ adventures, I was struck with such a sense of “wow, they are so big and this is so awesome.”  We didn’t have to bring entertainment or desperately try to distract them until the food got there.  We enjoyed real conversation and their company immensely. 

By the time we left, the sun had finally decided to peek out so we opted to give exploring another try.  The kids found a gazebo-type structure and promptly put on performances for us.  We walked through the sculpture garden and admired the river view before deciding that we really should just see if that nearby adorable coffee house had any of the gluten free goodies that their website mentioned.  Thankfully, they did, and thankfully, our full stomachs had just enough room to accommodate a little more.  We shuffled back to the van and started the drive to the hotel.  On the way we made a quick detour and decided to walk Walnut Bridge, the former-railroad-turned-pedestrian bridge.  We climbed the 95 steps up to it from our parking space and then walked across and back the gorgeous structure.  It is a really cool thing to be up so high over the river and take in all the views of the city.  It was windy, but we didn't mind.  The kids ran ahead just far enough to make us call out for them to stop and then waited for a moment before starting off again.  We took a few pictures and carefully climbed back down the 95 steps to our van.  

Back at the hotel, we got ready for bed.  There were two queens and a roll-away twin, which Luke volunteered to have for the first night.  We read our Bible story, said prayers, and then they each took a turn singing us a goodnight song.  We turned out the lights and ignored Luke's tired giggling while I read and David watched the Masters on his phone.  I felt so happy knowing that our little family was all tucked in just feet away from each other.  I fell asleep full of peaceful joy and stayed that way until Luke woke me up with a coughing fit a few hours later.  I couldn't get back to sleep for quite awhile, but I did finish my book!  Oh well.  It was nice while it lasted, but maybe separate bedrooms aren't the worst thing in the world.  

The next morning I woke up and attempted to quietly take a shower.  When I came out, both kids had commandeered my side of the bed with David.  We got dressed and ate our breakfast I'd packed from home before hitting the road for our visit to Ruby Falls.  Winding up the mountain side, we caught glimpses of the luscious valley views below.  An employee in an orange vest ushered us into a parking space and we bundled up against the wind as we walked to the castle-like building that housed the ticket booth and gift shop.  Our arrival couldn't have come at a more perfect time since they let us go right down the elevator in front of a huge group of fifth graders that were there on a field trip.  We road down 260 feet into the middle of the mountain, watching the grey rock rush by before us through the glass door.  When we hit rock bottom (HA!), the door opened and there stood our tour guide, who dramatically deadpanned one word to us:  "Run."  He laughed and introduced himself as "Andy."  We knew right away that he was going to be entertaining.  

As we rounded the corner to meet up with the rest of our group, Andy cracked jokes and lightened the mood.  I guess something about being enclosed in tight spaces that far away from the sun can make people a little tense.  We watched a short intro video and then began making our way along the trail path, stopping to admire the awesomeness of massive stalactites hanging above us.  It remains a constant 60 degrees and there are lights all around, so it wasn't as uncomfortable or spooky as I had imagined it would be.  It did get a little tight when a group ("survivors", as Andy referred to them) would pass by on their return.  The kids did a great job of staying close and only Audrey offered the occasional complaint that it was freaky or scary.  After about a half a mile, we heard the sound of the waterfall ahead and knew we were close.  Andy pulled us over to let a group pass.  As we waited, he gave us some final instruction about not tasting the water before leading us into the large room to behold the namesake prize.  It really was amazing.  The falls were lit up and there was some cheesy music playing that made it slightly more commercialized than I would've preferred, but it was still an awesome sight.  We took a few pictures, swapped picture taking favors with others in our group, and just spent a moment taking it all in.  All too quickly we had to line up and begin making our way back.  Feeling a little more confident in our cave-touring abilities, we picked up speed and made it back in much less time.  We boarded the elevator and said goodbye to the cave below as we ascended quickly back up into daylight.  

After some time on the playground and at the top of the castle lookout, we went into the gift shop to let the kids pick out some souvenirs.  We spent at least thirty minutes inspecting each and every possibility before they each chose a small pouch filled with rocks and an animal carved out of stone and Audrey got a pink slab of crystal.   They paid using their money and then we walked out to the parking lot to find a line winding out the door and filling up the sidewalk queue.  Talk about perfect timing!  I am not a patient line-waiter (I hate the wasted time and inefficiency), so I am very grateful we missed that mess.  

We drove back down Lookout Mountain and into the North Shore side of Chattanooga to eat lunch at a local spot called "Good Dog."  They were, indeed, good hot dogs (and fries) and we all ate hungrily having worked up an appetite hiking through a cave all morning.  After lunch, we hit a couple of stores near there and were starting to drive back to the hotel when we made a last minute plan change and opted to hang out at Coolidge Park.  We were originally going to go back to the hotel to swim, take showers, and rest, but decided it would make much more sense if we saved the swimming and showers until just before bedtime.  It turned out to be a good call and the kids didn't even gripe about the switch up.  

The first thing we did at the park was take a ride on the indoor antique carousel they have. Audrey initially chose a cat to ride on, but changed her mind last minute to jump on a horse. Luke chose a ferocious-looking tiger.  We rode around and then headed outdoors to let the kids climb all over the animal statues and roll down the small hills in the grass.  While Audrey and David played hopscotch, Luke and I found a perfect spot to sit right in front of the river.  It wasn't long before the view wasn't enough to hold his attention, so we all found a couple of different places to get close enough for them to touch the water and collect a rock or two.  We let them run around, check out an interactive metal musical structure, and then broke the news that it was time for ice cream.  They were obviously heartbroken.  We walked over to "Clumpies", which is a terrible name in my opinion, and had quite possibly the best ice cream I've ever tasted.  It was so fresh and creamy!  The kids seemed pretty beat (read:  Mommy and Daddy were tired), so after one last stop at a store where the lady gave them each a himalayan salt crystal for free (I was confused too, but why not?!), we made our way back to the hotel and put our feet up for an hour.  

Once we got our second wind, it was time for a little more exploring.  We walked from the hotel about five blocks to the Moon Pie General Store and moseyed around there for awhile. I let the kids each pick out some candy for the trip home the next day (nerds and bubble gum, in case you were curious.)  David went back to get the van at the hotel while we walked down a little farther through town.  He met us in a parking lot and we loaded up for dinner. Driving across the river, we made our way to Taco Mamacita, another tasty local spot that had a gluten free menu.  We ate on the patio and the food was delicious. We played our usual "Three L" game and ate way too much cheese dip.  It was perfection.

Back at the hotel we changed into our swimsuits and went down to the indoor pool.  Even though it was heated, it still felt pretty chilly.  Thankfully it was all 3-4' feet, so the kids were able to splash and play all over.  The only other family there left after about twenty minutes, so we had the place to ourselves the rest of the time.  After about an hour we decided it was time to head up for showers. The kids were reluctant, but didn't protest too much.  Luke kept telling me he was "dead" and then later explained that "what he meant by that was that his feet and legs were so tired he couldn't feel them anymore."  I could believe it!  We had walked quite a few miles that day and I was amazed at their good spirits and attitude during it all.  Of course, they were both out pretty quickly after we got cleaned up, read our Bible story, and sang goodnight songs.

I woke up early the next morning with the goal of sneaking down to the Starbucks onsite and starting this blog post.  Unfortunately, they don't open until 7am on Saturdays, so I had to find a quiet corner to tuck away in until then.  As I searched for a spot, an older gentleman remarked about how he couldn't believe they weren't open yet.  I told him I agreed and we joked about how the day is half over by 7am.  When you're comparing your sleep patterns with someone in their 70s, it may be a sign you're an old soul.

At 6:55, I headed over to wait by the door and bounced on in right at 7am.  I got my coffee, settled in, and wrote until 7:45am, when David texted me that they were awake.  I went back up to the room and we all got ready.  We packed up, checked and double-checked for any items left behind, and went to check out.  Rock City was on the docket for the morning and we wanted to get there before the crowds.

We drove the now-familiar Lookout Mountain, following the famous "See Rock City" signs. It was a chilly morning but we bundled in our jackets and applied sunscreen to the fairest Sinyard faces before making one last pit stop and then hitting the trail.  Each kid got a map so they could play tour guide, but it wasn't long before the maps were forgotten in favor of devoting their full attention to the gorgeous views around.  We walked through the paved paths, some pretty narrow (one part of a trail was titled "Fat Man's Squeeze"!), but most were wide and sunny.  There was a suspension bridge that definitely had my stomach in knots, but the kids did great on it.  In fact, Luke kept turning back to make sure I was okay! We saw the "lookout" part of Lookout Mountain, where supposedly seven states are visible (TN, GA, AL, SC, NC, KY, and VA), "Lover's Leap" where legend says that two Native American teens from warring tribes died, and "Balance Rock"...which is a huge rock balanced on two smaller rocks.  The guard rails were all a little too low for my liking and I was a nervous wreck at the high parts along the edges of the mountain.  I don't know how more kids haven't plummeted to their deaths there.  Of course maybe they have and they just decided that wouldn't be very good PR to advertise.  Audrey and Luke would climb up on the back side of the telescope stands and I'd lunge for them, nearly breaking their arms as I swung them back towards me.  "The good news is that you didn't fall and die today, children.  The bad news?  Mommy dismembered you in one of her fearful panic attacks."

Somehow we all survived and ended with Mother Goose Village, which was way creepier than cool to me.  Black lights illuminated scenes from famous tales like Jack and the Beanstalk and Goldilocks.  Something about black lights and the dated, weird looking characters just didn't sit well with me.  I don't think Luke cared for it either, but Audrey thought it was neat. We emerged from the dark exhibit into the light and rounded the corner to the final part of the trail, which dead ended into the gift shop.  (Of course.)   

The kids chose their final souvenirs (a pen and journal for Audrey, a golf ball and pen for Luke) and I got us an adorable "See Rock City" birdhouse Christmas ornament for our "travel tree" we put up at Christmas.  After a quick debate about what to do for lunch, we opted to drive the few extra minutes back into town to eat at a local hamburger spot that boasted good ratings and gluten-free buns.  It ended up being a great choice as we sat on the patio soaking in the warm beautiful sunshine and playing our final round of "Three Ls". Personally, I loved the views and flowers, could've lived without the Mother Goose stuff, and learned that I'm a lot more squeamish in tight spots and high altitudes than I thought...at least when my kids are involved.  

Lunch was delicious and afterward we slowly and reluctantly dragged ourselves back to the van.  We drove by the Chattanooga Choo Choo but decided not to stop.  We'd been nickled and dimed to death like the suckered tourists we were, especially with parking.  It just didn't look appealing enough to make us put off the inevitable drive home any longer.  As I like to say when we leave something undone in a town, we have to save something for next time! 

So we hit the road.  As we navigated our way out of town, we waved goodbye.  As silly and overdramatic as it sounds, I turned away and teared up.  It had been such a phenomenal weekend.  Everyone had been mostly healthy (a few stuffy noses, but nothing major) and everyone had mostly had great attitudes (a few sibling spats and snapping between adults).  Overall though, I was pleasantly surprised by how amazing everyone did.  The kids never once complained about being tired of walking or griped about changing plans or whined about food.  Except for bathroom breaks, they were incredibly independent and we never had to carry any "gear" with us.  Meals out weren't a mad dash to shovel in food while keeping them entertained...we actually took our time, talked, and genuinely enjoyed each other's company. Of course, it's not that we don't enjoy each other at home!  It's just that when you're in the middle of day to day drudgery, it can be easy to take each other for granted.  Or to get in a mindset of ticking off to-do lists and fulfilling obligations...nagging about homework or putting away dirty clothes and dishes.  "Vacation Mommy" gets to say yes a whole lot more.  (I think it must be the lack of laundry, cooking, and cleaning that puts her in such a good mood.)  "Vacation Daddy" is a lot more carefree and goofy.  Getting out of our usual surroundings and routine for a couple of days was such a wonderful reset for all of us. Seeing all of the amazing sights together was a big added bonus.  

Truthfully, I've been a little pouty today.  I teared up again dropping Audrey off at school this morning.  I'm sure the kids would've been at each other's throats and driving me nuts in another day or two, but I wish we could've had just a little bit longer.  It was a fantastic trip and I can't wait to do another one with these awesome people of mine.  Thanks for a great time, Chattanooga.  As the locals say, " 'ppreciate ya."


Audrey and Luke under a monster stingray model at the aquarium

My beauty

Amazing stalactites in Ruby Falls 

A not-so-great picture of Ruby Falls.  It was really gorgeous in person!

Evening stroll on the Walnut pedestrian bridge

David and Luke on the Coolidge Park antique carousel 

View from Lookout Mountain in Rock City

Goofing off at Rock City...away from the edge of the cliffs!

At Rock City

Trip to Savannah March 2017

Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Last weekend we took a quick trip down to Savannah to visit my brother and niece.  We checked Audrey out of school early, went to pick up Luke from preschool, and then hit the road.  Traffic was bad on the way down, but the kids did great and we pulled in right at dinnertime.  My brother cooked us chicken on the grill and we had a tasty meal, made even better when Annelise spilled her water across the table and it somehow resulted in the kids putting on a show.   After dinner, they played some more while we got settled in.  Audrey and Luke adored their 17 year old cat, Norman, and gave him constant love and attention, which he tolerated.  We calmed everyone down with story time and put them to bed, telling the girls they only had a few minutes to stay up and talk.  Ever the rule-follower, Audrey came out about fifteen minutes later and asked if it was time for them to stop talking.  We said yes and then put ourselves to bed soon after.  

Audrey and Annelise slept in the same room and were apparently awake and chatting at 5:15am.  I, on the other hand, slept until 7:15.  I wish you could capitalize numbers, but since you can't, I'll just have to settle for repeating:  7:15!!!  To my recollection, I haven't done that in years!  

After a big breakfast of eggs and pancakes, we hung out at the house and then went over to Tybee Island to walk the beach a little.  Since apparently I am new at this parenting thing, I did not think to bring a change of shorts or towels for anyone.  Why would I?!  We weren't actually swimming and kids always stay perfectly dry at the beach unless they're actually swimming.  (Eye roll.)  BUT, my redeeming move was not caring that they got soaking wet and then sandy, because I am in fact a more experienced parent that has learned to let them be kids.  We weren't trying to take cute pictures, they weren't in danger, so I let them be and they had a blast.  We discovered a dead jellyfish, found handfuls of shells, and wrote our names in the sand.  After the adults had had their fill, we loaded up into the van and went back to their house.  We ate lunch, let them run around outside, and then did afternoon baths.  When they grew bored with playing with Norman, they put on "Just Dance" and cracked us up with their moves.  Since there was no way we could get any of them to have quiet rest time, we put on the movie "Trolls" and they snuggled up together and watched that.

After the movie, we got cleaned up and went out to dinner at a local restaurant that had gluten-free pizza for AJ.  At the end of our meal, the waitress brought out a piece of cake for Annelise and we all sang to her for an early birthday celebration (she was turning eight the next day.) She blushed and loved it.  Back at the house, the kids cleaned off their piles off shells and sorted through their collection.  We let Annelise open her present and then the girls got caught up in her new "Charm U" bracelet while Luke bugged Norman and the adults lounged around and caught up some more.  We went to bed a little earlier than the previous night, full from delicious food and good conversation.

The girls "slept in" a little the next morning and woke up at 6am.  Sheesh.  We were trying to hit the road by 8:45am (we had to be back for small group since we were doing a service project that afternoon), so we got everyone dressed and fed (being sure to sing Happy Birthday to Annelise before eating!) and then they played outside a little.  When it was time to go, we sadly said our goodbyes and loaded up.  It had been a very sweet, but too short visit.  

We drove about halfway back and stopped at a cool local restaurant in Macon called The Rookery that we'd read about on "Find Me Gluten Free"'s website.  It was fun and delicious. We walked around downtown for a few minutes after to stretch our legs and then drove the rest of the way home.  We made it back in time to unpack, start some laundry, run by the grocery store, and be at small group by 4pm.  As you can imagine, we were all in bed and fast asleep pretty early that night.  

I'm so glad we got to go and loved spending the time with them!  Here are a few pictures from our visit:



Luke, Audrey, and Annelise on Tybee Island Beach

Luke, aka Batman, soaking wet after he fell jumping "mini waves" 

David and I with the kids on Tybee Island Beach

 Playing "Just Dance"

Out to dinner with the birthday girl

Beautiful girl with her Daddy on her 8th Birthday

Things I'm Loving Lately

Monday, March 27, 2017

1.)  My new journal Bible with lined margins.  They make all kinds of beautiful ones with nicer covers or coloring pages, but I really just wanted something that had more space for notes.  

Of course I would love to be the artistic type who can make theirs look like this:


But in reality, I know that mine is much more likely to resemble this:

And that's perfectly okay.  I don't fight it any more.  

2)  Cuties clementines.  I have eaten more of these in the last few months than in my entire life combined before then.  I don't know why, but I can't get enough of them lately!  Maybe it's my body crying out for Vitamin C.  


Add a piece of Dove dark chocolate with it and it almost resembles a treat. Almost.

3)  Spring and flowers blooming!  We had a very mild winter this year, so I haven't felt the desperation for spring that I've had in previous years.  Still, it's so lovely to see all of these flowers and trees blossoming and it makes me excited about spending more time outdoors!


Volunteers planted bulbs all along the entrance to our neighborhood last winter 
and it has made for such a cheerful and gorgeous drive home every day!


A Sample Work Week

Friday, March 17, 2017

This week has been a crazy one.  In an effort to both answer the "what do you do all day?" nonsense that some people still ask (or at least think) as well as to document what exactly it is that I am doing all day, here's a bullet point run down of this week.  Thrilling, I know. But I'm trying to blog more about every day life, and it doesn't get any more real than an actual list of what I did!

Monday:
  • Woke up at 5:30 and went to the gym to lift weights and do a few miles on the bike.
  • Came home, got in the shower, finished getting the kids ready, and took AJ to school. 
  • Went by Sherwin Williams to get paint and then took Luke to school.
  • Came back and painted the downstairs bathroom.  ALL MORNING LONG.  (What was supposed to be quick weekend project was dragging out because we decided to do it right and spent two days patching a ceiling crack and then painting the ceiling before even starting on the walls.  And a bathroom is just a ton of work to paint!)
  • Went to pick up Luke, came back and settled him in for a rest while I met with the exterminator for our annual termite inspection and then a guy giving us a quote on a window replacement. 
  • Continued painting the stupid bathroom.
  • Got AJ off the bus, fed the kids snack and hung out with them, then started her on homework.
  • Made dinner.  Then, yes...I worked on the bathroom some more.
  • Ate dinner, cleaned up the kitchen, did laundry, and hung out with family before putting the kids and myself to bed.  

Tuesday:
  • Woke up at 5:30 and did the elliptical in the basement.  My cut-off temperature for running (these days) is anything below 25 degree wind chill, so nope.  
  • Had coffee and quiet time.  I love those 20-30 minutes of peace before chaos.
  • Got the kids up and everyone fed and dressed.  Took AJ to school.
  • Came back home with Luke and finished getting myself ready.
  • Scheduled HVAC replacement and called four duct cleaning companies for quotes.
  • Ran errands with Luke, including Pike Nurseries for a gift card for his teacher, Aldi to restock some of Audrey's snacks, Sprouts to restock some more of Audrey's GF food, and Swim Atlanta to register Luke for swim lessons.  We made a quick return at a store and then had lunch out.  On the way home we stopped and got cupcakes for his teacher's birthday the next day.
  • Came home and put Luke down for rest and then finished up some Teacher Appreciation Week projects for Audrey's school.
  • Got Audrey off the bus, loaded the kids into the van and went to get Audrey's glasses adjusted, Target for new shoes for her, and Costco.  
  • Came home and had dinner, did dishes, supervised homework, put away laundry, etc.
  • Gathered, wrapped, and loaded teacher gifts and cards.  Filled out various paperwork and answered various texts and emails about various school stuff. 
  • I did not look at the bathroom today except to give it the evil eye when I walked by it.  I am still not speaking to it for the amount of work it is causing me this week.

Wednesday:
  • Got up at 5:15 and went to the gym to swim laps. 
  • Came home and got in the shower and got ready while David got the kids ready.
  • Took Audrey to school and walked her in so I could give her teacher the vase I monogrammed and help put the kids' flowers in it for her.
  • Stopped by Sherwin Williams (caulk this time) and then took Luke to school.  Walked him in to give his teacher her cupcake and present.
  • Went home and caulked the bathroom.  Stopped only long enough to eat lunch.  
  • Picked up Luke from school and we went to Audrey's school to help set up for their teacher's luncheon.  
  • Went home for snacks and for Audrey to change, then took her to gymnastics.
  • Gymnastics then home for dinner, homework, baths, dishes, laundry, and, finally, finishing touches and clean up of the bathroom.
  • Played a round of Uno, did some PTA work, and then glorious sleep for all.  
Thursday:
  • Showered and had coffee and quiet time before getting the kids up and ready.  
  • Fed them then finished getting myself ready before taking Audrey to school.
  • Went to the gym with Luke and lifted weights, trying not to sweat too much.
  • Went out to grab some last-minute Teacher Appreciation Week gifts.
  • Came home and changed, tidied up, and fed Luke and I lunch.
  • Spray painted the vent cover for bathroom vent.  Just when I thought I was finished!
  • Took Luke with me up to Audrey's school to watch her class so her teacher could enjoy an extended time at the teacher's luncheon.
  • Came home, played with Luke, and caught up on emails.  Got Audrey off the bus and spent the afternoon hanging out with the kids and attempting to put the house back in order.
  • Cooked and ate dinner, cleaned up, painted Audrey's nails green for St. Patrick's Day, paid bills, and went to bed. 

Friday:
  • Got up and had coffee and quiet time before getting AJ up and ready for All Pro Dads.
  • Sent David and Audrey off to her school, showered, and got Luke up.
  • Took Luke to school and then made some returns, did a drop off at Goodwill, bought a new set of bath mats at Kohl's and then....
  • GOT A PEDICURE.  It was marvelous.
  • Picked up Luke at school, put him down for rest, and finished this blog.
  • After school I will take the kids out to look for Easter outfits and then we will come home, do baths, cuddle up, and watch Fixer Upper while eating pizza.  
This week was definitely busier than usual.  Some things were anomalies (teacher appreciation week, painting the bathroom) but there always seem to be anomalies of some kind or another.  Then there were of course our norms (workouts, laundry, cooking, playing, homework, housework.)  I didn't include a weekend, which means I left out church and small group responsibilities and the usual Saturday downtown spent as a family.  There were a million phone conversations, chores, and details I skipped, but these are the highlights.  

It's busy, but it's good.  It's a lot of "managing blessings" as I heard one podcaster describe it. When I was talking to a friend at Audrey's gymnastics she mentioned that her husband asked her when they were going to stop being so busy.  Her reply was "We aren't...this is not a passing stage.  This is just our life right now and we chose this."  Did you catch that gem?! WE CHOOSE OUR BUSY.  And it shouldn't be done without a ton of careful thought and consideration.  Every extra curricular you sign your kid up for, every position you raise your hand to volunteer for, every "yes" you give = a lot of time, effort, and energy towards that thing AND away from something else.  So choose carefully and reevaluate often.  But be careful not to play victim to your calendar...at least not long term.

This is our version of busy life right now.  More than some, but for sure a lot less than others, but perfect for us right here right now.  I truly wouldn't trade it for the world.