18 Months Old

Monday, December 20, 2010

My oh my.  I cannot believe I haven't written an update post in three months!  I've put in little tidbits and stories and written a lot about our travels, but has it really been three months since I've detailed what AJ is into?  Oops!

So, with fair warning, here comes some major proud Mama bragging: 

I reread the 15 month post and it's hard to believe how much has changed just since then.  We are well past the point where I can list all the words she can say, because there are just too many to count!  I read somewhere that at 18 months they are learning and committing a new word to memory every 90 minutes.  I believe it!  She is surprising us with at least 3-4 new words a day.  And she repeats them over and over until you figure out what she's saying.  Sometimes we win, sometimes we have to try and distract her.  


Some of her latest and most adorable words and phrases are "pajamas" (this comes out sounding like pumjumoms), "Big girl" (when doing something "mature", such as sitting on the couch or taking a bath in the big tub for the first time),  "Right back" (she'll say as she's leaving the room), "Dare she is" (when she finds something or someone, regardless of gender) and “You alright” (she’ll tell herself if she’s bumped her head).  One of my favorite things she says is “All Gong” because of the soft “G” sound she puts on the end of “Gone.”  We work a lot on repeating pronunciation, but that one I’m leaving alone for now.  It’s just too cute.

Her comprehension of verbs, especially similar ones, is amazing too.  For example, she'll use bring vs. take, fell vs. drop, and have vs. do correctly most of the time.  And believe me, "Audrey do it" is an extremely common phrase around here nowadays!  Thankfully “Mommy do it” is still pretty popular, too.  She is also learning big vs. small and can tell you which object is big or "mall." 

With all of these new verbal skills, she has begun to put together simple sentences:  “Mommy change Audrey diaper” or “Audrey carry drink” or “Show Daddy _____” (baby, leaf, whatever), and “Mommy sit down.”  She also answers basic questions.  “What should Mommy wear today?” is usually answered with “Pants”.  The cutest is when she’ll request something repeatedly “Color? Color? Color?” and then we’ll say “Would you like to color?” and she’ll answer, “Okay!” or “Sure!” as if we came up with the idea instead of her.

She knows her alphabet A-Z and can say it and point/pick out all of the letters.  We had to work hard for about a week to get "LMNOP" all in without skipping any, but she's got it down now.  She can also make a lot of the letter sounds.  I hope to work with her more on those and lowercase letters after Christmas.

Animal noises are so old news.  Now she refers to most of them by name and will even note whether or not they have a tail, what color they are, if they're soft, etc.  She still loves watching our neighbors’ cats when they come through the backyard and will hold her sippy cup up to the window as if offering them a drink while telling me whether they're black or white.    

And speaking of colors - they came out of nowhere!  We have been naming them from Day 1, but haven't purposefully worked with her on them.  Nonetheless, it seemed like one day she just started saying them and now she knows about ten.  She even understands the concepts of "shades" as she proved when I was wearing a navy shirt under my light blue robe.  She pointed and said "Blue, blue.  One, two blues."  I think she already has most guys beat in that department!

She can name most shapes and can easily put them all into her shape ball now without much help from us.  She'll say "almost" to herself as she works to get them oriented the right way then usually gives herself a hand and a "Yay Audrey" when she's finished. (Sometimes if Mommy and Daddy are playing too, we'll get a "Yay Mommy!" or "Yay Daddy!  Good job!" from her.  So cute!)  She also knows numbers 1-13, though 11 usually gets skipped.  She loves counting so much that what begins as actual counting often ends up just reciting the numbers she knows.

Schedule-wise, she/I are still pretty rigid, but I feel that that actually allows us more flexibility and dependability.  I know when/where/what we can do because she's so predictable and she can handle the occasional interruption and flow with it because she knows it's temporary.  She wakes up at 8am, has a snack at 10:30am, eats lunch around 12:30pm, naps from 2 – 4:30ish, has a snack when she gets up, eats dinner around 6:30pm, and goes to bed around 8:30pm.

Like her parents, she enjoys most all food.  She still hasn’t had strawberries, chocolate, much seafood, or peanuts/peanut butter.  I also have yet to give her French fries, cookies, or many other treats and sweets, but she does love the occasional fried chicken nugget from Chick-fil-A or a lick of their ice dream cone.  She is getting better at feeding herself with utensils, but I must admit that we mainly stick to cut-up finger foods for the sake of time/cleanliness.   

Her favorite toys by far are still books.  She will get one and "read" it aloud which is hilarious hearing her make up words and sounds.  There are one or two that she really can name every word on every page (Sandra Boynton "Opposites").  We've read it to her so many times that she's memorized it.

She also loves her baby dolls and her Little People sets.  She has a nativity one and I cannot tell you how precious it is to hear her say "Jesus?! Jesus?!" as she's hunting for the baby Jesus.  The other day she was sifting through basket where we keep it and said, “trough” as she held up the animals’ feeding trough.  It took me by surprise and I cracked up, which got her cracking up, of course.  Apparently David had taught her that one.     

We do let her watch a little television now (bad Mommy, I know!  We really try to keep it to about one 20 minute show 3-4 times a week at most plus a few nights of Wheel of Fortune, of course.) Little Einsteins is her favorite and she requests it by name and quotes parts of it throughout the day.

Her manners are coming along well, too, thankfully.  I must hear "Up, please" at least a thousand times a day!  "Scuse me" is my favorite, mainly because she'll say it as she is lightly butting you out of her way.  We're still working on "Thank you" and are now introducing "Ma’am" and "Sir." 

I have continued to try and involve her in little chores around the house in the hopes that she’ll develop a spirit of service.  She loves to match socks from the laundry, stir things when I’m cooking, and (usually) to help pick up her toys at the end of the day.  Side note:  Baby Center.com posted the results of a study about toddlers helping that I found really interesting.  In the overwhelming majority of cases, if a toddler saw an adult struggling to complete a task (i.e. stacking books) they would quickly and eagerly pitch in and help.  If, however, the adult did it without a problem, the toddler was less likely to assist, even if asked for help.  Seems like we all need to be needed from a very young age!  So, though it may take two or three times as long, I really try to let her help me as often as I can. 

She is still a little shy when first meeting people, but warms up much more quickly than she used to.  She remembers faces very well, even if weeks pass in between visits.  We still hear quite a lot about Brian, Kimmy, and “Leese” from our Savannah trip and rarely a day goes by that all four grandparents aren’t brought up.   

Here are a few other cute quips about our big girl:

-      In the grocery store the other day, an older lady stopped by to fuss over her.  When she walked away, Audrey pointed to herself, grinned, and said, “cute.” 


-    Sometimes she gets on a greeting kick, saying hello to everything.  "Hi milk." "Hi sofa."
     "Hi chair."  "Hi brush."  When she's really feeling friendly, she'll throw in a little wave.

-     This morning, she asked where Daddy was.  I explained that he was at work, but that soon he was going to be off for vacation and would get to spend lots of time with us at home.  “Isn’t that wonderful?” I said.  She nodded and very clearly said, “Treat.”  Indeed, it will be a treat!

-      We’ve been singing a lot of Christmas carols this past month, with Jingle Bells being a common request.  She can’t quite keep up with all of the words, but she’ll say “Hey” and “Ha, ha, ha” at the appropriate times.  She also loves to dance to them...foot stomping optional.

-      In addition to hugging and kissing on her stuffed animals herself, she’s started to have them hug and kiss each other.  The objects involved don’t always make sense, though.  The other day she gave her coat a kiss and tonight her hat gave her lamb a kiss.

-      I can’t remember if I shared this one, but it’s so cute it’s worth writing again.  A few weeks ago, she had a cold.  One night I heard her through the monitor as she sneezed.  It was followed by a very faint and sleepy “Bless you” to herself.  Precious!

I've saved the absolute best for last:  About two weeks ago, she began saying "Yuv (love) you, Mommy" or "Yuv you, Daddy" totally unprompted and spontaneously.  It is the SWEETEST thing I have ever heard and it melts me.  


Yuv you, Audrey.  Happy 18 Month Birthday, Sugar.

(P.S. Check out the two newest albums in the gallery.  One is random pictures and visits with friends/family for her 16th - 18th months and the other is Christmas activities and family celebrations...more to be added to that one soon!)  

Thankful Thursday

Thursday, December 16, 2010

1.  My Dad, whose birthday is today.  The older I get, the more I realize what a great Dad he was (is) and the more I appreciate all he's done (does) for me (all of us).  Though David has long taken over first place as the main man in my life, he's a very formidable and close second.  Love you, Dad!


2.  The cold weather.  (And indoor play dates!)  Yes, it's been a bit too cold for my taste, but I would much prefer these temps than to have it be warm at Christmastime.  I love it cold between mid-November and New Year's.  Beyond that, bring on the 70s!


3.  New pictures in frames.  I decided we were long overdue for updating some pictures around the house, so I replaced/put up 40+ new pics (most in collage frames) a little over a week ago and am currently working on updating our digital frame that hasn't had a new file in it in years.  I love walking around the house and seeing these cute and beautiful little pieces of art, even if I was insane to take it on during the holiday season.  It's finished now and it looks great!


4.  Being a part of a church where God is doing big things:  


http://www.ajc.com/news/gwinnett/lawrenceville-church-plans-to-771320.html 


5.  Enjoying the season!  I promised myself I was not going to be in the same boat this Christmas season as I was last year.  I think it was a mix of Audrey's age plus David pulling really, really long hours, but last December was a stressed-out, frantic mess that we barely enjoyed.  (I just reread the posts from a year ago and remember how nuts it was!)


So, this year I have busted my tail to be finished shopping/wrapping/decorating early.  Maybe not as early as I had it done pre-Audrey, but still early enough.  I have forced myself to turn down things and invitations that would've been fun, but that would've meant less family/down-time.  I've even taken a few short-cuts that no one but me noticed anyway.  My family may be a little disappointed in the lack of photo calendars and homemade applesauce (sorry, y'all) but I'm willing to bet they'd rather me spend that time and energy soaking up this most wonderful time of year.


All of this reorganization of priorities has resulted in an awesome season full of simple pleasures.  In fact, one of the highlights of my life was snuggling with David and Audrey, eating pizza, and watching the original Grinch movie the other night.  I've seriously dreamed of doing that since I was a little girl watching The Grinch myself.  I've gotten to have lunch with both my parents, dinner and a light show with my in-laws, and caught up with friends over meals and way-too-much dessert. We have even watched a few Christmas movies that we've owned for years and just now opened.


I am so grateful that we've had some real quality time to spend together doing fun things.  I know what a rarity that is this time of year.  Hopefully you're able to do the same these next nine days!

Thankful Thursday

Thursday, December 9, 2010

1.  Visits to Santa...even if they are tearful and only yield a ridiculously over-priced picture that's not frame worthy.  She looked adorable in her Christmas dress and memories were made that we'll keep forever.


2.  Being reminded of the little things.  I went out with Audrey tonight, determined to finish up the last 3-4 things on my Christmas shopping list.  I came up empty handed and frustrated.  As I was buckling her in the car, I said "Well, Audrey.  That was a bust, wasn't it?"  She said "Dog!" and pointed inside Old Navy where I'd just let her spend a few minutes visiting with the mannequin dog.  Then she shouted "Moon!" as she pointed up to the gorgeous night sky.  I smiled and thought about the aisle of clocks we'd found in Hobby Lobby and how she'd gone crazy with excitement yelling "Tick Tock! Tick Tock!"  I remembered how loudly I'd sang carols in the car as she laughed.  To her, the night was not a bust.  We got out of the house and saw new and different things.  We spent time together.  The holiday to-do list will get finished, but I have to remember not to miss the special moments in the meantime.


3.  Soft Lips Chapstick.  Good stuff.


4.  AJ finally getting adjusted to a new nap schedule!  We started the one-nap-a-day schedule last week and the next day she got sick.  We stuck with it, but it was a rough week.  Since she couldn't breathe when she was lying down, the naps were short and there were a lot of tears shed.  I was seriously regretting my decision to switch.  This week, however, has been much better!  She even slept for 2.5 hours each of the past two days!  YAY!


5.  Family letter Christmas cards.  We send one every year and I'm sure we're the butt of many jokes because of it, but I LOVE them.  I love getting them from other people and I love writing ours and sending it out.  Start checking your mailbox now, folks...they're on the way!

Thankful Thursday...Thanksgiving Update

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Thanksgiving already seems like it was a long time ago, so I'd better get in a quick update about it before I forget it all!  So, in lieu of a Thankful Thursday post, here is a summary of our holiday:

David took Wednesday off and we spent most of the day decorating and running a few errands.  I was thankful for the help with Audrey, because I was on day three with no voice.  I'd been to the doctor the day before and got some prescriptions for bronchitis and laryngitis.  I felt pretty okay, but sounded terrible.  That evening, I made a couple of side dishes and David finished putting lights on the tree to prepare it for decorating the next night (our tradition).  I sank into the couch after Audrey was in bed, reflected on all God had blessed us with since last Thanksgiving, and took a moment to whisper my thanks to Him for it.

On Thursday morning, we got up and dressed and headed over to my Mom's to have lunch with her, my brother, my sister-in-law, and my nephew.  Audrey fell asleep as soon as we were pulling off of the interstate, so we drove around for about 20 minutes to let her catch a little nap.  When we got to Mom's, we helped finish making/heating a few things and sat down to a huge, delicious feast that I only truly appreciated later when I had time to slowly savor the leftovers.  Watching Audrey enjoy all of the new foods was really cool.  I just kept thinking, "This time last year she wasn't even on solids!  I was her sole source of nutrition!"  Man, what a difference!  Corn pudding was probably her favorite (I may be biased, though, since that was one of my contributions). She also loved the sweet potatoes, rolls, and turkey.  

We cleaned up a little and went outside to enjoy the gorgeous, warm weather.  We tried to take some pictures, but the wind and the sleepy kids weren't terribly cooperative.  We did get in a few good shots (the album is in the gallery).  We went back in for some pumpkin pie, which was another first for Audrey and, like her Mama, she loved it!  We read books to the kids and hung out until about 3:30 before starting the trek home.  Audrey was so exhausted that she slept the entire way back!

When we got home, we attempted a few more family pictures and played in the backyard for a little bit before it got dark.  Then we headed inside to heat up some leftovers and enjoyed round #2 of that day's yummy meal.  When we finished cooking and I'd typed out a quick TT post, we decorated the tree while watching the Lighting of Macy's Great Tree.  Even Audrey helped by hanging a few non-breakables on the very bottom.  We snuggled together, read, and said our prayers, feeling especially grateful for such a sweet day.

On Friday we woke up at a normal time like normal people and did not fear getting trampled or mauled on our way downstairs.  I calmly and conveniently made a few online purchases in my pajamas (for which I still got early bird deals, applied coupon codes, and free shipping) and we hung out and decorated some more.  By lunch time, though, David wanted to venture out.  It cracks me up how much our personalities have switched over the years.  He said we'd just "go see how bad it was" and come right back if it was crazy.  So, off we went to Target on Black Friday.  Ugg.  Surprisingly, though, it really wasn't terrible.  We got a decent parking spot and found a few great deals we couldn't say no to (an 8GB SD card for $12 and Elf on DVD for $3.99).  We also bought hot dogs, buns, and chili for dinner that night.  I bet we're the only people in the world who bought stuff for chili dogs at Target on Black Friday.  We went home and worked on decorations (22+ boxes/rubbermaid containers and 3 trees take a loooong time) and even started wrapping some gifts.  I usually have some wrapped by Halloween, so to get to Thanksgiving without having anything completely ready was ridiculous for me.  I'm a freak.  I know.

I ran back out late that afternoon by myself to make two returns (I figured Black Friday was the perfect time to do returns because no one else would be...I was right!) and hunt for another gift or two.  An hour and a half and four stops later I called it quits and went home for time with my family and chili dogs.

We woke up Saturday morning, got ready, and drove out to David's parents' house for Thanksgiving celebration #2.  His parents, two sets of aunts and uncles, cousin, paternal grandmother, and maternal grandparents were all there.  I coerced his cousin into taking some family pictures of us before we ate, and she did a wonderful job.  It's so hard to get a picture of all three of us smiling because A) I'm usually taking the pics and B) If I'm in it, I can't be the one getting Audrey to smile.  I was desperate to get a smiling family photo for the Christmas card and, thankfully, we finally did!  After going in to warm up (major temperature change between Thursday and Saturday), we sat down to a huge, yummy meal.  Audrey ate just about everything we offered her, but David's Grandmother's banana pudding was by far her favorite.  She kept everyone entertained by showing off her ABCs, twirling in her cute sweater dress, and even played a little on Granddad's drums.  We took more pictures, packed up more food, and got back on the road around 3pm.  As with Thursday, she took a pretty good nap on the ride home.  

When we got to the house, we changed her into her Georgia Tech t-shirt and played, ate, and watched a little football.  She went to bed exhausted and we stayed up and watched the Tech v. UGA game until after midnight.  Unfortunately, we weren't rewarded for our time as they lost this year, but, there's always next year.  I stayed up long after David went to bed working on our Christmas card, finally finished it, and emailed it to Camille, glad to have that checked off the list.

Sunday is kind of a blur.  I think there was more decorating and cleaning up, then we went to church (and, finally, AJ did not cry about being dropped off at nursery!), then we went to small group that evening.  We were definitely feeling down about David having to go back to work after being off five days in a row, but it made us look forward to Christmas even more.

So, there ya have it - Thanksgiving 2010.  Lots of family, lots of food, lots of decorating, lots of fun.  

Hope y'alls was great, too!  Remember to check out the pics.