September/Timber Trek 2016 Recap

As I write this, we are nearly at the end of October.  I don't know how it happened, but it's true.  Audrey asked me the other day how to write the date in numerical form and I responded "8/21/16"...apparently I am still very much in August.  Which is unfortunate, as I think September was a great month and I hate that I missed it.  

Here are the things I *think* happened last month, but I'm not sure I can be trusted:

• Labor Day weekend was crazy, but fun.  We were in Alabama on Saturday, over my dad and stepmom's on Sunday, and in Cobb visiting friends on Monday.  Nearly eight hours in the car total, but it was time spend with lots of people we love, which made it very much worth it.  

• Audrey's school fundraiser was at the beginning of the month, which meant a lot of communication and a lot of counting.  ("Really, Tommy?  Did you have to collect $0.16 from each of 32 relatives?"  Can I just write a check for $20 and NOT have to count all these coins?!)  Nonetheless, the school exceeded their goal and the class reached all of their personal incentives, which meant I got to supervise a "field trip" to the park next to the school for lunch and recess.  It was great to get the time with the class, as AJ's teacher isn't too keen on parent helpers this year.  

• Luke started Pre-K!!!  Unbelievable.  He was ready and excited.  Since he has the same teachers that Audrey did and a couple of buddies in his class, we were all pretty comfortable.  (But mark my words:  I will be a wreck next year.) 

• My mom came out and spent the night with us one Friday.  I had a cold and wasn't feeling the best, which put an unfortunate damper on things.  David and I still got a little date in and we all went to the neighborhood pool for a final swim of the season.  The kids bid it farewell through chattering teeth and blue lips.  

• We attended Suwanee Fest and enjoyed seeing the sights and overpaying for spray painted tattoos and bouncy houses for the kids.  

• Luke had a playdate with his friend Lilly that absolutely adores him.  (I can't remember if I wrote about it before, but she gave him a Bible for Valentine's Day last year and is head over heels for him.)  Her mom had been asking about a time they could get together and I finally relented.  She brought her older brother and Audrey came too.  Unfortunately, Luke was more content to run around than pay much attention to Lilly.  He tried, but he didn't cater to her quite like she expected.  I heard later that Lilly's feelings were a little hurt.  Sigh.  I'm not sure it's going to be longterm match.  I guess she's learning the hard lesson of managing expectations and he's learning that girls are often guilty of not communicating those expectations.  Plus, you know...they're FOUR. 

• We started back up with our small group.  We're co-leading with the Kirkleys again and discussing the sermon series.  We have mostly the same couples this time around, with the exception of one that left and a new one that came in.  It's actually Audrey's friend Kaelyn's family, whose mom I've known for years and did women's Bible study with.  

• Audrey began attending art club after school one day a week.  This girl of mine continues to knock my socks off with her artistic abilities.  At her parent-teacher conference at the end of the month, her teacher commented on how balanced she is and that she's great at doing a variety of things.  She's reading on an end-of-fourth-grade level and earning some "E's" in her gifted class, which is quite rare (S's are the norm). We are so proud of her for all of her achievements.  More than any of that, though, we're ecstatic that once a week she chooses to sit with a little boy in her class at the allergy table so he won't eat lunch alone.  (Others rotate with him too.)  As we told her, it doesn't matter how smart or talented you are if you're a jerk (we used nicer words.)  I pray she always has a heart for others.  

And of course, the Timber Trek happened this month!  Had I written this a few weeks ago, I'd have a lot more detail and umph for ya, but as it stands, it already seems like a million years ago and just thinking about it again makes me exhausted.  Here are a few highlights:

• Over 100 participated (half of which were from the neighborhood)

• $2,400 was raised for Family Promise and The SaltLight Center

• 22 businesses sponsored (And y'all, these were hard-won.)

We came in almost exactly where we did last year in terms of participation and money raised.  It was great weather and everything went very smoothly.  I am so grateful for the volunteers (many of them return helpers that got duped again!) and the support.  I love that people now know a little bit of the story of Family Promise and The SaltLight Center and can no longer say "I had no idea!" when they hear the staggering statistics of homelessness in our county.  I also love how the kids get to see me bust my butt for something that matters and join in as helpers.  

I'm still uncertain about whether there will be another race next year.  It's SO MUCH WORK.  Just so much.  Even though dealing with the HOA was much easier this year (non-existent, really), securing sponsorships nearly sucked the life out of me.  I hit up 70 businesses, most of them in person.  Every time someone made me do 7-8 follow-ups for a $75 level sponsorship, I was again reminded how very much I want to be a generous giver. Almost without exception, those at a $300 level or higher were the easiest and nicest to work with and those that gave the least were as stingy/flakey as could be.  

I know I won't do another one with Fundracers unless they take a smaller cut (and I don't want to take it on solo, especially since I wouldn't be able to offer tax deductions unless I incorporate), so we'll see what I can negotiate.  For now, we'll count this one a success and thank God for his blessing and favor on it.  

That's it for September!  Resolution updates will come for October's recap, which should be very soon.  In theory...