The News at Thirteenish Months

Friday, July 30, 2010

I meant to write an update of Audrey's latest milestones around her birthday, then was determined I would do it by 13 months, and am finally forcing myself to sit down and do it before month 14 gets here!  It's a little disjointed, but here is what's up in her world these days:

She is officially walking, in case I haven't mentioned that yet.  She was taking five or six steps between us a few weeks before her birthday and then, the week after her party, she just took off.  One second she was using the furniture to hold onto with one hand, the next she decided she was capable of doing it herself and just kept walking.  It was about a week after the 4th of July that she officially started walking more than she would crawl.  Now there is no stopping her.  She's very proficient and hasn't had too many falls so far, thank goodness.  She really only runs into trouble when she tries to carry too many things or too big of a thing in her arms (her baby doll + her Fisher Price Puppy = trouble).  For the first week we tried to keep her off of our hardwoods because the concrete slab below them isn't very forgiving.  That didn't last long at all, as she is determined to "go, go, go" as she attempts to say and can't be contained.

Another thing that astounds me is her comprehension.  I cannot even count the number of words that she understands now...it's got to be hundreds.  She picks up things even if I only use them a few times a week and locks them away in her memory.  She'll exhibit this by going to the object I name or pointing to it in a book.  Her verbal vocabulary is growing quickly, too, though the pronunciation can be difficult to pick up on unless you're around her enough to know what she means.  She's great at "Ma-ma"(though she calls me "Mi-mi" a lot too), "Da-da", "Bye-Bye", "No-no", "Uh-oh", "Eye", "Nose" and "Baby".  She says "Bu" or "Ba" for a million different things - book, bear, belly, bubbles, butterfly, beads, bow, button, bird, ball, and bracelet to name a few.  Other favorites: "Mo" is more, "Gee" means keys, "Og or Do" is dog, "Du" is duck, "Ee" is ear, and "Mou" is mouth.

She is also getting very good at animal noises.  When you ask her what a sheep says, she'll say "ba", for cow it's "Mmmm", cat is "ME-ow", and dog is a mix between making a "w" shape with her mouth without much sound for woof or a sort of "arf".  The funniest is elephant.  David and I always make the arm motion for the trunk so when you ask her what an elephant says, she'll usually throw her arm up in the air and kind of blow out of her mouth.  It's hilarious!

She can follow two-step directions very well.  If I tell her to go get something and bring it to me or put it somewhere, she usually can without me having to repeat it more than once.  She also has dozens of phrases down and can respond accordingly.  If I tell her we're going to do laundry, we're getting ready to go, it's time to take a bath, etc. she knows exactly what it means.  She also knows exactly what "no-no" means, but still tries to push the limits on occasion.  My computer, for example, is a big-time no.  Still, sometimes when I'm working on it she'll walk up and stick out her index finger and inch towards it.  Then she'll look up at me and say "no-no" as if she's trying to convince herself.  A few weeks ago, she slowly moved her Little People dog towards it and used it to touch the keyboard, as if that was somehow okay.  I quickly informed her that touching it using something else is a no-no too.  Occasionally she'll walk by the TV, stairs, or my camera and just start saying "No-no-no-no".  Great.  That's what Mommy sounds like to her, I guess.


On a more fun note, she seems to be noticing music more and more.  She'll "dance" by bending her knees and bouncing a little or holding her arms out and moving them up and down like she's snapping.  Apparently I do that a lot with her musical toys and never realized it until she began to mimic me.  (I have a feeling that won't be the last time I don't realize something I'm doing until she starts copying it!)


Her favorite toys these days are her baby dolls, stuffed bears, her "See and Say", and her Little People (the bus and blocks they came with are sometimes added bonuses).  She also loves her Fisher Price purse, mainly because of the keys and the bracelet inside.  She'll put the bracelet on and walk around showing David and I over and over again.  Books are a major favorite, too, which I am so thankful for.  I'm pretty sure she would sit in my lap and let me read to her all day long.

Speaking of favorites, her love of food is definitely growing as her menu expands.  The most recent new successes are chimichangas, burritos, chicken kabobs, spaghetti, and several other different types of pastas.  She's had a little bit of ice cream a few times and loves it.  Her daily menu is a waffle, pancakes, or oatmeal, a fruit, and either cottage cheese or yogurt for breakfast.  Lunch is a vegetable, a fruit, sometimes leftovers, and cheese.  Snack is milk and fruit, plus cheerios.  Dinner is usually whatever we're eating, but I always try to include a vegetable, a protein, and a carb.  She still does jarred vegetables quite a bit because she'll tolerate them more than the raw form.  I know I need to take lunch up a notch, but that's hard when I usually just do a protein shake or a frozen Healthy Choice for myself.  Maybe we'll start trying sandwiches.  I also haven't done eggs yet, so we'll give that a shot soon too.  She has not eaten fast food, chocolate, or junk food yet, either, but I'm going to try and hold off on those as long as I can.  There will be plenty of time in her life for that.  She definitely needs work on chewing and pacing herself.  We really have to watch her and only put a few pieces of the food on her tray at a time because she crams them in with no self control.  That also sounds like something she got from me.

Her separation anxiety has pretty much disappeared.  For a while, there were a few times a day I could barely leave the room without her crying.  It wasn't all the time, but when it hit, she was serious about needing me to be right there.  I think once she started walking and realized she could get to me easily, it helped a lot.  Now she'll wander out of the room and I'm the one that has to go looking for her!  The only time she fusses when we leave is at church nursery, and I'm sure that the tears are dry as soon as we walk around the corner.

I am really trying to instill a servant/helpful spirit in her but letting her do little things with me and then praising her for her help.  For example, she loves to help put clothes from the washer into the dryer, or carry them from the dryer to Mommy and Daddy's room.  She gets such a huge smile on her face when I say "Thank you, Audrey!  You are such a good helper!"  Sometimes this backfires, though, like when she'll randomly pick up laundry from the hallway piles and bring it to me, or go put stuff I'm trying to fold back into the dryer.  We'll get it the hang of it eventually.  For now, it's well worth the lesson.

We do lots of outings to keep my sanity and expose her to different people and places.  She tolerates her stroller and her car seat very well.  We upgraded to her big girl car seat a few weeks ago, but are still keeping it rear facing as recommended by the "experts". (More on that in an upcoming post on my other blog.)  She loves to people watch and just kicks back, sucks her thumb, and takes it all in.  She is never short on compliments from strangers, which of course make me beam with pride.  Everywhere we go, we have people come up and tell us how cute she is.  I usually let her out of her stroller to walk around a little and that really draws attention, especially of grandmas!

I think that's all I've got for now.  I'm sure I'm forgetting a million little things that I know will be fleeting memories all too soon.  It really does happen quickly and I try to remind myself to soak it up and take mental and real pictures as often as I can.  There are nights when David and I creep in her room and sigh over how huge she looks in her crib.  She's such a beautiful, sweet baby girl and we are so proud to be her parents!

Thankful Thursday

Thursday, July 29, 2010

1.  That the no-more-nursing transition has been going so well.  The first night I put her to bed without nursing her first, I thought for sure there would be a fight.  Nothing.  She didn't even act like anything was up.  I never nursed her to sleep for naps, so she did know how to go to sleep without it.  Still, though, I was expecting something.  But alas, the only tears were mine.  I have a feeling that will be the case for most major milestones in her life.


2.  Dinner with friends.  Last Saturday and this Tuesday we were able to sit down and break bread with sweet friends, all of which we've known for at least a decade.  There are few things in life that make me happier.


3.  Hair bows.  Audrey finally has enough hair to pin little bows in and have them actually stay!  She looks adorable in them.


4.  Mommy time-outs.  I try to get a few hours a week to myself to recharge.  I'll go to a coffee shop and write, meet up with a friend, go shopping, or just run errands.  What I do isn't as important as the break itself. Sometimes the stars align and I get several opportunities in one week, which makes for a very well-rested Mommy.


5.  The love of my life, my best friend, the father of my baby, and my husband of six years (as of July 31st).  You are my rock and I cannot thank you enough for all of the support and love you've shown me during our marriage (and long before we said "I do", for that matter).  Happy Anniversary, babe!

The End of a Chapter

Monday, July 26, 2010

Last night I nursed Audrey for the very last time.  As I rocked her in her dark room, the tears streamed down my face.  I thought back over the incredible journey of the past thirteen months.  I thought through all of the worry and anxiety that came during the beginning.  I cannot begin to count how many times I asked myself whether she was getting enough milk, whether she was gaining weight, whether my supply was down, and on and on and on.  I remembered the phone calls to the lactation specialists and other nursing moms, begging for advice and guidance.  I remembered the pump and the pump parts and the cleaning of the pump parts.  I remembered being desperate to quit.  Then I remembered how that dislike turned to tolerance...then like...then love.


In my mind, I pictured every place I'd fed her: the hospital, the homes of friends and family, my childhood bedroom, and, of course, the car.  That child has been fed in the parking lots of malls, gas stations, restaurants, stores, and churches all over this state.  I also thought through all of the ways I spent those hundreds of hours.  In the beginning (when she'd make harmonica sounds while she was eating), I read to her and talked to her, trying everything to keep her awake.  As we both got more proficient, I was able to multi-task a little better.  I've checked emails, made phone calls, cooked meals, and eaten meals while simultaneously feeding her.  Of course, there was a lot of staring and hair stroking and praying over her.  Those are the moments I will always cherish.


One of the things I will miss the most is the quiet closeness we were able to steal together every day.  No matter what was going on, I knew that at certain times, she and I would sit down and be able to catch our breath and cling to each other for a little while.  It was just us and no one else mattered.  In those moments, I was her world and she was mine.  It was nutrition and comfort only I could provide.


As I laid her in her crib last night, I was filled with a mix of pride, sadness, and happiness.  We'd made it through literally thousands of nursing sessions.  It was one of the hardest things I've ever accomplished in my life, and certainly the hardest that I've ever had to do for that long.  I'm heartbroken it's over, but I know it was time.  Though the physical pain, sacrifice, and commitment that came with it cannot be fully explained unless you've been there yourself, it was worth it.  Totally, completely, worth it.  Congratulations, Baby Girl.  We made it.

Thankful Thursday

Thursday, July 22, 2010

1.  Music.  This week I've been working on importing my CD collection into my new computer and realize how much I love all my music.  I'm looking forward to creating some new playlists!


2.  Children's menus.  Audrey ate her first meal off of a children's menu tonight.  (Grilled chicken with watermelon, bread, and steamed vegetables at Longhorn's).  It was really nice not to have to figure out what to feed her and to get out of cooking and cleaning the floor and highchair afterward.


3.  My dentist.  I know it's weird to like your dentist, but I really do.  He and his whole staff have always done such a great job and I never dread going to see them.  If you live near me and need their info, let me know!


4.  Cricket chirps and summer nights.  Especially if they come with a short thunderstorm.


5.  That my sweet niece, Annelise, is feeling better.  The poor baby has had a tough week, but is on the mend and raring to go!

Thankful Thursday

Thursday, July 15, 2010

1.  My new computer!!!  AHHH!  My four year old laptop has been giving me fits lately.  After it took me seven minutes to look up a movie time the other day and then later popped up with a message that there wasn't enough space on my hard drive to save a Word document, I told David something had to be done.  We decided to invest in a new one instead of sinking money into upgrades.  We're counting it as an early joint anniversary gift.  It's a Mac, so the learning curve is a little steep, but so far I'm extremely impressed.  I bet you can tell my writing seems better, huh?!

2.  Ponytail holders.  They keep you cool, cost about 2 cents a piece, and can completely change your look in ten seconds flat.  What's not to like?

3. Window screens.  So I can air out the house without letting bugs in after frying Chimichangas for dinner. 

4.  Fried chimichangas for dinner.  Delicious - and a really easy recipe!  I'll try to remember to share it soon.

5.  The premier of The Closer this week.  I love that show, even if her southern accent is so bad that it's slightly offensive.  

Have a great weekend!  I'm long overdue for an update on our sweet girl and all that she's up to these days, so check back soon for that.

Thankful Thursday

Thursday, July 8, 2010

1.  The 4th of July!  I am so grateful to the men and women who serve and have served in the armed forces in order to protect our freedom.  We had a wonderful weekend full of family and food.  What a perfect way to celebrate living in the greatest country in the world.  As Erma Bombeck said:

“You have to love a nation that celebrates its independence every July 4, not with a parade of guns, tanks, and soldiers who file by the White House in a show of strength and muscle, but with family picnics where kids throw Frisbees, the potato salad gets iffy, and the flies die from happiness. You may think you have overeaten, but it is patriotism.”

2.  Finally getting caught up with this blog (and my other one, too!)  I enjoy writing so much and have missed this creative outlet.

3.  For that matter, getting caught up on everything!  It seems like I've been putting off projects and errands a lot the past couple of months and it's nice to start tackling them again.  In the past two weeks, for example, I've printed and filed 350 pictures and then indexed the seven photo albums (with 300 pictures each) that we've filled since AJ was born.  I've also cleaned up the bonus room closet, completed all of my returns (all 17 of them...yes, really), written 19 thank you notes, and gotten some financial stuff in order.  Plus visits to the dry cleaners, bank, library, and post office.  You don't know how much good that does my to-do-list-driven heart.  Next week, it's Goodwill time!

4.  Shorts, air conditioning, bug spray, cold drinks, deodorant, and everything else that makes southern summers bearable.

5.  TV Series on DVD.  During the summer slump when all of our usual shows are on hiatus, David and I usually pick a show we've been wanting to watch and rent or download past seasons.  In 2008, it was Grey's Anatomy and last year it was Brothers and Sisters.  This year, we've chosen The Office...and yes, we're the only ones left on earth who aren't watching this show!  (Notice how we also cut back to a 30 minute sitcom instead of an hour-long drama!  We need those extra 30 minutes of sleep!) I'll keep you posted on what we think of it!

Have a great Friday, everyone!  

Pictures are Up!

Monday, July 5, 2010

Well, I am finally caught up on uploading photos and there are now FOUR new albums in the gallery for your enjoyment:  Audrey's Twelfth Month, Trip to New Smyrna Beach 2010, Audrey's First Birthday/Father's Day, and 4th of July 2010.  

The pictures from her birthday party are going to be another couple of weeks as Camille has to edit them.  I'll let you know as soon as they're up.

Enjoy!